Motherhood looks different for every woman. For Devyani Tekwani, it began with two tiny heartbeats at once. At 30, raising her now 1.5-year-old twin boys, her journey has been one of constant motion, quiet strength, and overwhelming love.
Born in Sidhpur, Gujarat, Devyani carries forward a simple yet powerful belief into her parenting: healthy bodies and healthy minds create joyful, strong children. In a candid chat with us, she shared how the love and care she received growing up now shape the way she raises her boys every day.
How has your upbringing shaped your parenting?
My agenda is that a healthy body and healthy mind lead to happy and strong children. The attention and affection I received from my parents will also be my priority towards them.
What did the early days of motherhood with twins feel like?
The experience was both initially exciting and ultimately exhausting. But at the same time, I had this fear that my twins were growing too fast. I wanted to experience more of their newborn phase, but they quickly transitioned into their toddler phase. Every day brought different challenges, but the urge to do everything best for them never goes. After all, I am their mom. Their everything.
How has feeding two babies at the same time been for you?
“Superhuman” is the only word for twin moms. People can’t manage with one child, just imagine managing two at the same time. But all I can say is that time and situation teach you everything.
What does a typical day feel like when both your boys need you at the same time?
Sometimes I feel my love is not enough. Even 24/7 feels less for cuddles and playtime. I take both my boys on my lap and cuddle them, especially when both feel cranky.
What have nights been like, and how did you cope with the sleep deprivation?
My husband has always supported me fully. We have passed that tough period, and now I know the real importance of sleep.
Do you experience the burden of performing every task twice and remain uncertain whether your efforts are sufficient?
Two babies need everything double. I would say patience and calmness are the only options, because a mother is the solution, not the cause.
What does mom guilt look like for you with twins?
Whenever I feel I’m giving time to one, I run to the other, and the cycle goes on. At night when they sleep, I often feel I’m not sufficient and try my best to always be around them.
What does “me time” look like in your life right now?
Me time is when my babies sleep. Sometimes I feel I have forgotten myself or have no time for myself, but this is the only time when my babies need me completely. I don’t want to waste this crucial stage. Motherhood is a unique journey that every mother should live fully. Once they grow, they will take their own decisions. For now, they depend on us, and we should do everything possible to shape their lives.
Have you ever felt completely overwhelmed? What kept you going?
My babies’ needs. The thought that if not me, then who, keeps me going.
What is one moment between your boys that melts your heart instantly?
When they insist I carry them, make eye contact, smile, say “mama mama,” and follow me around the house.
What would you say to another mom raising twins?
Please give your full love, attention, and care to your babies because you are replaceable everywhere except as a mother. When they grow, you shouldn’t feel guilty about not living their childhood. It’s difficult with twins, but God knew you could do it well, that’s why He gifted you two babies.
In Her Quiet Strength
Devyani’s story is not just about raising twins, it is about showing up every day, even when you feel stretched beyond yourself. It is about choosing love over exhaustion, presence over perfection, and patience over pressure. In the chaos of two toddlers calling out for her at once, she is building something deeply meaningful: a childhood filled with warmth, security, and unconditional love.
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